WHY MARRIED MEN PREFERRED US TO THEIR WIVES – SEX WORKERS

Visits to some of brothels and hotels within the Lagos metropolis had revealed that sex workers engage both single and married men in romps with the greater number of their patrons were married men who they also preferred dealing with.

Some of the brothels and hotels our source visited were located at Agege, Idimu, Shasha, Mushin, Ikotun, Igando, Yaba,Ejigbo and other areas in the state.One of the commercial sex workers, simply known as Jenifer and who operates in Shasha area of Lagos said that most of her clients were married men.According to her, though she used to collectgood money from them, she still pitied them as she learnt their wives were not really taking care of their emotional needs at home.Jennifer narrated that one of her clients opened up and complained that he got married some years ago and they had threechildren. But after the birth of their third child, the wife had practically abandoned him and faced the children without knowingthat he needed care as well as the children.She said that as a graduate, she knew whatthose men needed and they were not getting them in their different homes and then decided to work on them.She revealed that these men mostly stuck toher and had been paying reasonable money unlike the single men who came withmany fake stories.The lady further narrated that she had threeregular married clients and whenever they came, she made sure that she treated them well.She said that she usually spent good time with them, chatted them up generally, and then attended to their sexual needs which they lacked in their homes and at the end they paid her reasonable money.

Another lady, Grace, revealed that married men were preferable because they considered and appreciated the workers more than the single men who may not want to pay at all or pay more.She however noted that dealing with married clients was a huge task, as such workers must have patience in order to treat such clients well and at the end the patience will be worth the pay as they will pay good money for the service and become regularly clients eventually.Grace observed that married men preferred them because of the attention and time they usually gave to them which they were not getting from their wives in their various homes and once they got them from the workers, they get stuck to them.She said that some even got carried away and proposed to marry her but she usuallydeclined because marriage was not part of why they became workers but money to cater for other things.Another worker, Miss Chizoba, equally agreed with her colleagues’ assertion on married men but added not all were good clients as some may come and start telling woes of their wives at home; even making terrible demands and may not have the money to match what they want from them.Some other workers who spoke to our correspondent had almost the same opinion and noted that the married clients preferred to stay longer with them becausethey find solace and enjoy themselves more any time they come around unlike in their homes.